主题：老公的朋友向我示爱

　　老公的合作伙伴

　　老公的一个朋友，也是他的合作伙伴。老公由于在高校工作，闲暇较多，所以一直在外边接点小项目做。这次是和一个以前合作过的一个人，一起做一种什么开发板。我以前也见过他，老公带我和他还有几个人一起吃过饭。

　　这段时间他们业务上可能需要交流得多，就常常见面，地点有时在老公办公室，有时就来我家（晚上或者周末）。他们常常在书房里工作，我通常是给他们准备点水果、茶水后，就到客厅看电视或者回卧室看书。

　　有时看他们工作到了饭点儿时，就去把饭做好，请他跟我们一起吃了。刚开始几次他还很不好意思，后来就慢慢随意了。

　　最开始的疑惑

　　发现他不对劲是在三周前。那次是周五，他们又工作得很晚，我准备好晚饭。他跟老公开玩笑说：“老兄，你真有福气，老婆这么好。”我开玩笑说：“行了，你就别贫了，你福气不是更好？听说你老婆去年给你生了胖儿子呢！”他怔了一下，然后露出一丝苦笑。老公给我使了个颜色，我不知发生了什么事，于是打岔说让他们赶紧洗手吃饭。老公去洗手间的空当，他坐在餐桌前，不说话，眼睛却一直看着我，我无意中看到他的眼睛，似乎有一丝别的意思。当时我还以为是自己多虑了。不过事后想想，除了自己老公，被别的男人直直地盯着总是不自在吧。

　　晚上老公告诉我，他和他老婆已经分居一段时间了，他老婆生了孩子后，脾气变得特别大，对来带孩子的婆婆动辄大呼小叫，他说一句话他老婆就数落他半天，有两次吵嘴升级，他老婆还去厨房拿刀要砍他，他强把刀夺下来。我恍然大悟，有一次看见他手指上包着白纱布，原来是……我问老公为什么不早告诉我，老公挠挠头说：“每天这么忙，哪有时间说这些东家长西家短的。再说详情我也不清楚，人家自己不说我哪好意思问啊。”呵呵，这就是男人和女人的不同吧；要是女人，早把事情的前因后果、来龙去脉搞得一清二楚了！我说：“是不是女人生了孩子后，心理变化挺大的？也许他对他老婆关心不够，他老婆心里不满才这样的吧？要不要我们劝劝他？”再看看老公，这家伙已经睡着了。

　　酒桌上的失态

　　然后第二天周六下午他又来我家弄那个什么板啊，电路图的。我准备做饭时，老公不让我做了，说太辛苦，一会儿一起出去吃吧。他也说，是啊，每次来都麻烦你，今天出去吃，我请客。那次出去吃饭时，他们喝了些啤酒，我要了瓶饮料。他一直抢着给我倒上，说谢谢我招待他那么多顿饭，说我手艺好，性格也好，家里也总是那么整洁、雅致，他说的时候我看出他眼里有些许无奈，大概是想到他的家庭了吧。老公一贯不拘小节的，当然注意不到这些细节。听到自己的老婆被人夸，眉花眼笑的。

　　那顿饭他喝了不少酒，明显有点失态，最后老公都说，差不多就别喝了。他只苦笑不说话，又一口气喝光了一杯。我和老公都觉得有点不对，最后老公不让他喝了，没让他自己开车走，帮他打了个车。因为老公也喝酒了，我当然不让他开车送他。

　　我开始反感了

　　然后就到两周前了，他们做的东西人家催得挺急，所以那周他差不多天天下班后过来和老公一起赶活。结果，连续4天，他都提前来我家。我猜他肯定是提前从他单位走的。我的工作不坐班，所以回家总是很早。他似乎是有意提早来。每次他来了，我都礼貌待之，端上水果什么的，然后坐在客厅沙发上，随意聊几句。可能女人在这方面总是敏感的吧，我感觉到他经常盯着我看，而我看他的时候他又避开我的眼睛，说话也有点不自然。

　　我想把这种情况跟老公说，又怕是自己想多了，引起不必要的麻烦，毕竟他跟老公也是认识两三年的朋友了。于是我没说什么，我只是礼貌地询问了一下他儿子，看得出他很喜欢他的孩子。但一提到他老婆，他的脸上就写满了无奈和沮丧。看到他那样子，我既有点同情他，心里也有点不舒服。因为，我讨厌那种和别的女人谈及自己家庭的不幸、自己老婆的不好的男人。既然如此，为什么你当初还和人家结婚？自己婚姻不幸，为什么自己不去努力？而来和别的女人抱怨企图获得同情甚至别的？不管处于什么原因，对于这种男人我心里真的有种反感。

　　所以，我真诚地告诉他，女人其实很需要男人细腻的关心的，何况生了孩子的女人，心理上一定会发生许多她自己都想不到的变化，男人在这时应该多关心她，多和她聊聊天，多帮她分担一些家务。他点头，不说话了，过了一会儿才说：“我这么努力的工作，业余时间从不去消遣，还做私活，还不是想让她和孩子生活过得更好？可是我一回家，她从来没有好脸色给我，唉，都不愿意回了……”

　　还有一次，他看着我，突然说：“像你一样每天都笑盈盈的，开心地做这做那的，谁看见你心情都感觉轻松愉快……”后来老公回来了，他们就进书房工作了。

　　他竟然对我说……

　　直到这周一，他又一次提早来了。他坐在沙发上，我端上西瓜，他不吃，好像在酝酿着什么。我有种不好的感觉，突然他很不顺畅地说了句话，差点让我逃出屋外去。他说：“我说一句话，也许你会觉得我该去死。我喜欢上你了……”他后面的话语气变得很紧张，也没说完整。那一刻，我心里普通普通跳，万万想不到他说出这些话。几乎是下意识的，我立刻站起来，仿佛到厨房拿东西一样。

　　到了厨房我定了定神，感觉心头有种莫名的慌乱，随即又有点气愤：他的老婆为他生儿育女，他竟然跟别的女人说这种话？我的老公对他以诚相待，他竟敢对他的朋友妻子说这种话？我几乎要冲口而出“你走吧”，想了想又没说。我在厨房里坐了一会儿，他坐在客厅里，半天都没有任何声音。我想他也许是无地自容了吧。

　　过了一会儿，我听到他在厨房的玻璃推拉门外轻轻说：“对不起，我走了。”我没出声，然后听到他开门、关门的声音。

　　后来老公回来了，他刚放下包，我就扑到他怀里，紧紧抱着他。我为刚才自己听到别的男人的表白有那么瞬间的激动而自责（或许每个女人听到男人的赞美和示爱都有一种虚荣心的满足吧），我爱我老公，而且这辈子只爱这个有点粗枝大叶有点笨有点傻的老公！老公告诉我：“老婆，今晚不调板子了，××（他）有事。我们好久没出去散步了，一会儿吃完晚饭出去吧。”

　　希望他迷途知返

　　那个晚上，我都在思忖，这件事要不要告诉老公。最后我决定，如果他到此为止，我就全当什么都没发生过。因为，一旦我告诉老公，两个男人之间的交情必定中断，也许还会为老公增添不必要的烦恼。何况，他也许只是最近家庭的不顺，压力太大才导致如此失态吧，也许他只是想从我这里得到一丝安慰吧，也许只是一个男人头脑一热说出的昏话吧。我不相信他会真的爱上我，在这么短的时间里，只有不到三个月的接触。他应该还是爱他老婆的，只是他们婚姻最近的火药味让他糊涂了吧。希望他能迷途知返。

　　所以，我把这件事装在了自己肚子里。当然，最重要的一点是，从老公那里听说的以及我自己对他的判断，他并不是个人品低劣的人。这次，也许是他一时糊涂吧。今天是周三，过去两天了，昨天他到老公的办公室去了。老公昨天跟我说，他们总把我家当成办公室，他感觉过意不去。我当然清楚他为什么，于是我跟老公笑笑说：“我也不希望这样，我可不想把我精心布置的家当办公室出租，何况你们还不付租金。”

　　老公掐着我的脸蛋说：“哈，原来早有意见了！”我们一起大笑，我的心开始轻松起来了。

上午的管理信息系统课，老师又点名了。呵，我还算比较幸运，本周第一次或者说唯一来的一节课，正赶上老师的钦点检查，真可谓是祖上烧了高香，谢天谢地。听同学们私下里议论：“此次点名不在的，在期末考试中一律会不及格。”我的妈，还没经过法院审判，就直接执行死刑了，比德国的盖世太保、民国时期的军统还要恐怖，起码人家杀个人还得策划一番呢，而老师“杀人”就从来不见有沾血的，信手拈来，也够狠。

我有一哥们，点名的时候，还在寝室做着春秋大梦呢。慌乱中，我趁应答“到”的工夫，连忙给他发了短信，让他速来教室寻求生机。如果起床速度够敏捷并省去诸多程序，一溜小跑冲进教室，再气喘吁吁的给老师编个来晚的理由，怎么着也能从轻发落，算迟到吧。如果起床后还想洗个脸，刷个牙，对不起，那就死定了。没想到哥们的速度还真快，不到五分钟，就来了个乾坤大挪移，从宿舍的床上飞到了教室的椅子上。躺着的姿势还没变，wow power leveling,不同的就是身上多了件衣服，咋一看，居然还是反着穿的。我想兄弟这下可真够惨的，从寝室到教学楼，大脑中该是一片空白吧，我们教室在五楼，就算坐电梯，那也得正好赶上才行。看来生机还真不好找，好歹这次哥们算过关了，只是被全班同学看到反穿衣服的滑稽样，的确有点难堪。

说起来，点名是有种把大家纠集到一起的功能，但这课听起来实在是索然无味，比鸡肋还鸡肋。趴在课桌上睡了一节，感觉头有些晕，像中了无色无味的毒一样，迷糊中突然想起上星期我好像被点了三次名，顿觉脑中清醒许多。

我回忆了好大一会，终于想起来了：“哦，自己上周确是被点了三次，一次是辅导员的课点的，一次是被心理学老师的男朋友（男朋友为她代课）点的，而另一次，可他妈也真够惨的，被系学生会给点了。一周内被盖了三次帽，也可以算榜上有名了吧！”
听说被系学生会点着了，还要出布告，给予警告。当时听到这些，我心里的确一惊，可后来一想：“自己在系里正没出过名呢，好不容易有了一次机会，岂能错过，嘿嘿！有点难得呀！”

说实话，点名出布告，也无非是给形式主义中又增添了一些垃圾。是学生谁没逃过课啊？只不过是逃多少的问题。负责点名的学生会里逃课多的比我有的是，你们点名的时候就不心虚呀？记得当时哥们给我打电话，让我赶快到教室，他们先给我周旋一阵，拖延时间。world of warcraft power leveling,我一下慌了，连忙穿衣服找鞋，可不到一分钟，我又迅速安静了下来，我给哥们回电话：“不用拖了，让他们随便吧，别说是学生会，就是院长在那，我也不去。”挂断电话的瞬间，我觉得自己终于牛逼了一回。没顾着想那么多，脱掉刚穿好的衣服，一头扎进被窝，继续睡觉了……
其实，我逃课是有着悠久历史的。从小学到大学，我最喜欢的一门课就是“逃课”。以前，我也产生过既然那么喜欢逃干脆不上的想法，但在父母百般的阻挠下，我还是坚持了下来。再说，当时我也是无计可施，不上学，我干吗去呀？什么都不会，出去还不是喝西北风，不如呆在学校里，除了学习，平日里还能缺几节课，也蛮有意思的。就这样，我逃课的习惯不但没改掉，而且逐渐加深了。
我在小学、初中甚至高中逃课的程度都没有现在的厉害。那些时候觉得学的课还挺有意思，能听到很多新鲜而又有用的东西，再加上课程紧，学习压大，所以逃课的机会还是比较少的，只不过是小打小闹，有急事的时候，才下定决心去逃。即便是这样，偶尔的几次还是被老师逮个正着。那时处罚起来要比现在大学里严重的多。现在最多扣了你的平时分，最严重的也就是不及格，并没有涉及到人身伤害问题。可那时就不一样了，如果被老师抓住逃课，轻则写检查、罚站，重则可能就需要老师亲自动手了，揪你耳朵、踹你两脚，看起来都是稀松平常的事。现在想起来那些当时侵犯过我身体的老师，才懂得做到“为人师表”是多么的难。

现在是大学了，当然我们都知道了自己所拥有的权利，所以老师们们也从来没有向我们动过手。基于此，我逃课就变的更加肆无忌惮了。在大一的整个学年内，我都记不清我到底逃了多少节，只记得上课完全依自己的感觉，想去就去，不想去拉倒，真正达到了“选修课必逃，必修课选逃”的境界。那时逃课不是因为有更重要的事情要做，最主要的还是所学课程的无聊透顶。我不敢断定那些知识将来是不是真的有用，但给我们传输知识的有些老师实在差的可以。且不说他们知识的贫乏，个别老师讲课竟然用方言授课。试想一个现代化的大学如此跟不上时代的发展，wow gold,难免让人生出厌烦情绪。记得有一位教****的老教师，按年龄估计早该退休了。可他仍“坚持”在讲台上给我们“传道、授业、解惑”，颇有孔丘大家的风范。只不过一口流利的山西话与****搀杂在一起，让我们不但没有解惑，反而更加迷惑了，一时间竟分不清他说的是****还是家乡话。这种情况我曾在系里的学习工作会议上反映过，但系领导说现在师资力量确实紧张，等我们了解一下再说，然后便再也没了消息。如此态度，如此课堂，怎不让我这类逃学族增加无穷的动力。

大二的上半学期，因为考试课的突然增多，我逃课终于有了收敛。但由于大多课程属于文科性质，不必赶的那么紧，所以习惯依然在延续。平时坐在班里应付老师，其实学到的东西是很少的，只有到临近考试的时候，我才强迫多看几眼书，多费些工夫制作点实用性的小抄。
也就是这学期，我在大学度过了迄今为止最美好的时光，因为在这段时间里我同时遇到两位自己比较尊重和喜欢的老师。他们是会计老师王文，外聘老师马迎飞。王文老师课讲的好没说的，而且听她的课有种充实感，一言一行都能使人受到感染。马迎飞，也许我从来都没尊称过她一句老师，我总觉得叫她马老师太难听，而且把漂亮的她都叫老了。我曾在课堂上当着全班同学的面叫她飞儿。虽然她只教了我们一个学期的****课，但这也是我上大学以来唯一一学期全勤的课程。她留给我们的是一种听课的愉悦和享受，一种最真实的兄弟姐妹般的亲切。记得有次，world of warcraft gold,她批评了我们班的一位男生，结果在第二节上课时，这位男生竟捧着一大束鲜花冲上讲台向她道歉，飞儿当时就傻了，红着脸不知怎么办才好，在全班同学的欢呼下，她才接过鲜花，而整个人却害羞得钻到讲桌下不肯出来，我们费了好大劲才让她挺直身体。她还极力为自己圆场：“下次不要再这样了，下次不要再这样了！”呵呵，那时侯我就觉得她只是我的一位好朋友，而并非老师。如今回忆起来，当时的情景就像是一道幸福的涟漪，渐散渐远，而又难以忘怀……最近有在网上碰到她，我还能很调皮的叫她一声美女或是飞儿。我知道她不可能再教我，但有种感觉，我想以后都很难再有了。

迷迷糊糊进入了大二下半学期，也就是我现在的处境。所开的课又变的乏味起来，开学两个多月了，我早已恢复到了以前的逃课状态。四月的末尾，天气连续的放晴，每日渐高的气温，热的我有些喘不过气来。最近一段时间，我经常性的缺课，每周也就出现在教室一两节，其余的时间就呆在宿舍上网或工作。对我来说，逃课的理由显然很不充分，除了课实在无聊之外，我总觉得上课不如打工挣钱来的实际。与其违心的掂本小说在课堂上熬时间，还不如干脆不去来得清闲，两则关键的差别也就是个点名问题。我向来是个懒得请假的人，反正不想去，就应该有被点着的心理准备，何必再编写不着边的理由来咒自己呢？听说过一个笑话：“有一个学生向老师撒谎说他爷爷死了，需要请假回家，老师信了他。结果没过多久这个学生和他爷爷同时出现在学校，老师问：‘你爷爷不是已经死了吗？’学生回答：‘是呀，可他又活了，他有点搞不明白老师出了车祸，怎么还能批请假条。’”这个学生聪明的真是可以，竟然能两面骗得成功，显然他的理由在两边都是充分的，也难为他了。记得一次有位老师在课堂上宣布：“凡多次无理由请假的，考试成绩要扣分。”我当时心里就好笑，什么叫无理由请假，自己造的词吗？谁请假能没有理由，不管撒谎还是事实，能应付过去就行，你能说别人的理由是假的吗？所以从这一点看，老师还不理解我们。

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I'm the Only One

She was my sister and she was sleeping late. She's a lot older than me and at the time she was about to break into films, directing them, so everybody was indulging her. She was the only girl, too. If something didn't wk out in her life and she had to come home f a while, it was a big deal. It mattered me than if I ****ed up in one way  another. When Kelly was at home you had to creep around the house and keep your voice down even if it was in the middle of the afternoon. Our mother's Canadian - I don't know why I say that, except maybe it helps explain her opinion about Kel: Smarts Needs Special. It was this crappy little phrase that she had made up and it meant that clever people.wow power leveling, People with special talents, need special treatment. Like they have a disease. You have to meet the Canadian side of our family to understand how cute she thinks that phrase is. I remember thinking that it was bull**** when I was fourteen and it still smells bad now. But to my mother, Kelly was this asteroid that had landed in our lives and no one knew how she got there  what size hole she was going to leave. I've never been very good at school, and Pete, our older brother, is the same. Then along comes Kelly. So my mother has us all pussy-footing around like a family mime troupe, waving our hands, taking our shoes off.replica rolex,

I'm thinking of a particular mning, I was creeping around trying to make a silent breakfast, opening cupboards quietly, acting like I didn't exist. I'd been doing it f a couple of weeks since Kelly got back. It felt like I'd been doing it my whole life. The situation came about because earlier in the year Kelly had moved in with this guy called Aidan. They bought furniture, the whole wks. Then she cheated on him and he left her. Apart from Kelly being back in our house, it was also a shame because Aidan was the only man she ever went out with, befe  since, whom I've had any time f whatsoever. Aidan was a top, replica rolex,man, a good guy. The thing I like about him was that he was smart, but he didn't need much of this special treatment. He was Irish, from Dublin, and he could be funny, he could talk football and he liked to see other people's mouths open and close besides his own. It was good knowing someone like him. I needed it; what with dad not being around, Pete married and gone; and me in a house full of women. That was the year I was praying f a few me inches on my height and shaving the bare space under my nose hoping that something might turn up. So it was good to know Aidan, six foot three and hairy as a bear. He was hairy back and front and Kelly would tease him about it, and he would laugh her off  tell her she could do with losing a few pounds which, between you and me, was nothing but the truth. She was a fat little thing back then. And he went and told her, straight-up; didn't care that she was almost, st of, famous. He told it how it was. That was the way he loved her. She never appreciated it, replica rolex,though, and then she had this fling with some pretty boy in the film industry. But you could see she realised what she'd lost when he left her because she slunk back home and holed herself up in Pete's old room that I'd been using f weights. She took it over and lay in there all day in the dark curled up in a stinking duvet watching old black-and-white films. I remember asking her, 'Why can't you use your own bedroom?' She had a small bedroom upstairs that used to be covered wall to wall in her school friends' graffiti until she went off to university and mum whitewashed the whole thing. I asked her again, 'Why can't you use your own bedroom, that's what it's there f.' She said, 'I can't sleep and wk in the same room. I need a study.' She said it as if a study is one of those things you can't do without, like clean water. I said, 'But I need to exercise.' She said, 'You're fourteen. Your body isn't even developed. The only thing you need to do is stop beating the bishop befe you go blind.' This was classic Kelly. She always knew how to make you feel four inches long in every direction.
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So she came back, and I had to move out all my weights and spread them around the house wherever there was space. I put the bench press in my room along with the free weights. I put the Abdominizer in the lounge. I stuck the chin-up bar at the top of the stairs which lead down to the front do. And even though I was pissed off with Kelly f taking the spare room, having the weights all over the place did make it me like circuit training and doing circuits made me feel like I was Rocky. It's what they do in the middle of Rocky movies; a two-minute sequence to show that over a number of months he got fit and pumped up. You pray f that kind of speedy, magic-time when you're wking out, the same way you wish your adolescence would pass like it does in a TV serial: a school scene, a sex scene and graduation. It's slower and faster than that. And some events become still and solid, and turn into a thing in your life, an object like a lampshade  an ironing board. They hang around; you could reach out and touch them. This day I'm trying to tell you about is like that.
So: my exercise. I'd start in my room, and do about four sets of twenty. Then I'd run downstairs and start on the Abdominizer. If you've never seen one, they're like half of something fun, half a bike
replica rolex,  half a swing. You lie down in them and you do sit-ups. You spend good money trying to make sit-ups something else. In the end, a sit-up is a sit-up. But I'm a big a mug as anyone and I'd try and do two hundred sit-ups in that thing in sets of fifty. The pain was very bad. So I'd think of something that pissed me off, usually Kelly, and the anger would help me push out the last fifty. I wanted to show her that I could develop if I wanted to. Because there was always this thing between her and me that we were both kind of overweight, and always telling the other one that they were obsessed with it.So if Kelly didn't eat lunch,
I'm the Only One